A Nigerian man, identified simply as Max, has recently opened up on how he knew his relationship was over.
Taking to Twitter, the man revealed that he knew his girlfriend was done with him when she stopped responding to his messages.
He shared screenshots of the heartfelt messages he sent to her, expressing his deep love and vulnerability, but she ignored him.
In the chat, Max apologized to her for an undisclosed issue, acknowledged his imperfections, and reaffirmed his love for her. However, his messages went unanswered and unacknowledged.
Furthermore, Max expressed his disappointment that his girlfriend seemed indifferent towards him even when he goes of his way to look out for her, but sadly she was unmoved.
Speaking on his experience, Max said he doesn’t pray for anyone to experience what he went through in that relationship.
He wrote,
“May y’all never experience what I experienced in Jesus name
And someone said this morning that men don’t work on their relationships ???????? Joke, I used up all my strength ????????”
His tweet quickly went viral online and many people criticized him for being so vulnerable and accused him of being weak for expressing his emotions to a woman.
In response, he clarified that his ex-lover was a narcissist who manipulated and gaslighted him hence it was not easy to let her go.
He added, “Y’all saying why didn’t you leave on time, you’re funny af, you think it’s easy leaving a narcissist ? You’ll try leaving and they’ll manipulate you, gaslight you come back and lovebomb you again, many of you think it’s easy until you experience it first hand ????????”
Read the chats below,
