Nigerian lady on Twitter has caused a debate on the micro- blogging app, about Christians and sexual abstinence before marriage.
Her question has sparked Twitter debate by Christians, after she asked how Christians in relationship determine sexual compatibility in a relationship without sex, prior to marriage.
She tweeted;
“Christian twitter, how do you determine sexual compatibility in a relationship without sex, prior to marriage.”
Reacting to her tweet, some social media users argued that it’s not a right decision for Christians in a relationships to abstain from sexual activities before marriage because they need to know wether they are compatible.
Others argued that Christians don’t need to determine sexual compatible if the relationship is match made by God.
While many said sexual compatibility can be known through prayers, counseling and communication.
Read some of the reactions below.
@aabidemiii the fact that this topic is usually overlooked.. What if the guy has more sex drive than the Lady, or she doesn’t fancy sex much. Then Oral sex is just another thing entirely????????.. What if just one person wants it and the other doesn’t..
— A cup of T☕ (@SeyiTollar) December 8, 2020
Clap for yasef. Some guys can’t get it up, others burst in a moment. Some women require an orchestra playing for 3 hrs to get them wet. So all of these would be revealed only after I say I do!? God bless you ????????
— Kurunmi (@Kurunmi2) December 8, 2020
You don’t. If you could trust God to help you with finding a partner,you can trust him with the rest
— I AM BABY (@the_banku) December 7, 2020
Nah…
I don’t know what made you think if it happens like this they’ll be compartible but my guy na lie hin go shock you.— Loci (@Incredibleloci) December 8, 2020
There’s nothing like sexual compatibility scripturally
The institution of marriage was set up by God in a manner that each partner is meant to explore and satisfy the other as they go on in marriage
@Jesugbemileke— Ebenezer Olateru (@jogo_teru) December 8, 2020
Just imagine that everyone have to taste the bread before they buy it? The bread will end up being badly used. You buy the bread because u believe it’s good right? If you have a feeling it’s not,you ask the bakery if the bread’s fresh or not. Let’s treat each other with value.
— henry Johnson (@henryeemeka) December 8, 2020
You must talk about everything pertaining sex before saying I do, if you can’t stand oral sex and he likes it, it’s a red flag. the most important thing is love, trust, understand and tolerance. marriage is a journey not a destination. Don’t rush into it.
— @annieij_ (@annieij1) December 8, 2020
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