Nigerian popular activist, Aisha Yesufu has advised married couples to keep their mothers out of their marriage.
According to Aisha, mothers are the first persons to keep out of ones marriage if the couple wants their marriage to work.
She stated that the moment you start sharing what is happening in your marriage with your mother, she will began to interfere.
In a Twitter thread, the human right activist wrote; “When you get married, the first person you have to ensure you keep out of your marriage is YOUR MOTHER! Those love and concerns and wanting to find all is okay in the guise of love? It is not healthy! You start sharing what is happening you are done for! They begin to interfere!
She added that new couple should learn to find out what works for them and develop it. She also advised couple to keep everyone out of their marriage.
However, she said admitted that marriage is not easy, but that couple should learn to also take their time and do what works for them.
As a new couple, learn what works for you. It is unique. Develop it yourself the way you want to. Keep everyone out of it! Do your thing and it is never easy marrying two different lives together. So take your time.
Keep everyone out and do you!”
As a new couple, learn what works for you. It is unique. Develop it yourself the way you want to. Keep everyone out of it! Do your thing and it is never easy marrying two different lives together. So take your time.
Keep everyone out and do you!— Aisha Yesufu (@AishaYesufu) December 11, 2020
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